I talked to my husband, Daniel Mitchell, a very busy surgeon who often came home late after long shifts.
After listening to me, he smiled lightly.
I didn’t argue.
I simply installed a camera.
A small, discreet camera in the corner of the ceiling in Emily’s room. Not to spy on my daughter, but to reassure myself.
That night, Emily slept peacefully.
The bed was clear.
No clutter.
Nothing taking up space.
I exhaled, relieved.
Until 2 a.m.
2 a.m. — The moment I will never forget
I woke up thirsty.
And then…
I froze.
On the screen, Emily’s bedroom door slowly opened.
A figure entered.
Thin body.
Gray hair.
Slow, unsteady steps.
I covered my mouth, my heart pounding, when I realized:
It was my mother-in-law… Margaret Mitchell.
And then lay down next to her granddaughter.
As if… it were her own bed.
Emily shifted, pushed toward the edge of the mattress. She frowned in her sleep but didn’t wake up.
And I…
I cried without making a single sound.
A woman who spent her life on her son
My mother-in-law was 78 years old.
She became a widow when Daniel was only seven.
For more than forty years, she never remarried.
She worked whatever jobs she could find:
— Cleaning
— Laundry
— Selling food in the mornings
All to raise her son and send him to medical school.
Daniel once told me that when he was a child, there were days she ate nothing but dry bread… and still found money to buy him meat and fish.
When Daniel went to college, she still sent him envelopes with 20 or 30 dollars, carefully folded.
For herself…
She lived with a level of austerity that broke your heart.
The silent illness of old age
In recent years, my mother-in-law began showing signs of memory loss.
— Once she got lost and cried in a park until midnight.
— Once, while eating, she suddenly looked up and asked:
“Who are you?”
— Sometimes she called me by the name of her late husband’s wife.
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