Individuals who speak easily, engage comfortably in conversation, or adapt well in social settings are often assumed to have extensive romantic experience. However, research on interpersonal skills shows that social confidence usually develops through repeated everyday interactions—school environments, professional settings, friendships, and family relationships.
These skills grow from learning how to listen, respond thoughtfully, and manage social cues over time. Comfort in conversation is far more likely to signal emotional intelligence and practice than any specific romantic background.
Psychological studies suggest the opposite. Emotional clarity often comes from self-reflection, personal growth, and learning how to protect one’s mental well-being. These traits may develop through many life experiences, including personal challenges, independence, or non-romantic relationships.
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